A quick and insightful online test to help you identify your attachment style, so you can better understand your relationship patterns and emotional needs. The test contains a total of 20 questions and takes approximately 5 minutes to complete.
The following questionnaire can serve as a starting point to help you better understand your attachment style and how it may affect your relationships. However, it is not a substitute for a conversation with a mental health professional. Only a trained expert can offer personalized insight and support for your emotional needs.
Regardless of your quiz results, if you have questions or concerns about your relationship patterns, emotional reactions, or personal well-being, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor.
A test developed by Optimum Joy can help you better understand your attachment style and how it might shape your emotional experiences and relationships.
Simply answer a few questions, and you'll receive an overview that you can reflect on or discuss with a therapist or counselor to explore your emotional needs more deeply.
Attachment style test
Do you often feel anxious in relationships, craving closeness but fearing rejection? Or do you tend to distance yourself emotionally and struggle with vulnerability, even with people you care about?
Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns in love and friendships—feeling either too much or not enough—and wondering why it’s so hard to feel secure and balanced?
If this sounds familiar, it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you. But these recurring emotional patterns may be rooted in your attachment style—formed early in life and often carried into adulthood. Understanding them is the first step toward creating healthier, more connected relationships.
Attachment styles influence how we respond to closeness, conflict, and emotional needs. Whether you lean toward anxious, avoidant, secure, or disorganized patterns, this insight can help you better understand yourself and your interactions with others.
If you're ready to explore your emotional patterns and improve your relationships, this test can be a gentle first step on that journey.