Are you thinking about cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and wondering if it's the correct move for you? Does it really work? Let's talk with our therapists about how CBT works, what to expect, and what issues it can help you with.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a psychotherapy method that has been shown to be beneficial in several studies (and by millions of people who have used it). The only condition is a willingness to change so that you may employ treatment findings in your daily life.
CBT is founded on the idea that our thoughts influence our emotions and behaviors. In other words, our thoughts influence how we behave and interpret the world around us.
Want an example? Imagine your boss requests a private meeting. Your first thought might be, "I must have done something bad, and I'm being fired." You feel worried all day and can't concentrate on anything else. Not a good day, right?
CBT can help you identify, confront, and reframe these catastrophic beliefs into more realistic ones that will not give you undue anxiety. But it's more than simply thoughts.
CBT focuses on two key areas – cognitive (how we think) and behavioral (how we act). You can think of it as a mental detective work, where you uncover unhelpful thinking patterns and replace them with more beneficial ones. And then, you act accordingly.
One of the most useful aspects of CBT is its emphasis on practicality and problem solving. You can see results quickly. Here are its primary features:
✔ Concentrates on the present, not the past.
Unlike certain therapies (such as psychoanalysis), which take you back to childhood and deep into your subconscious, CBT focuses on what is happening in the present. Your therapist will not try to discover the source of your difficulties, but will instead help you develop strategies to manage with the anxiety you are experiencing right now.
✔ Action-oriented and practical.
CBT isn't just chatting; it's more of a workshop. Your therapist will offer you activities to do in between sessions. For example, if you have social anxiety and are afraid to make phone calls, you could start by phoning a pizzeria or a hotline to gradually gain confidence.
✔ Sets defined goals and measures progress.
CBT adheres to a planned plan. At first, you and your therapist will establish specific goals, such as minimizing panic episodes or becoming more comfortable in social situations. This allows you to track your progress and stay motivated.
✔ Teaches you to be your own therapist.
The purpose of CBT is to make you self-sufficient. You'll learn tools and approaches that you may apply in everyday situations. This means that even after therapy stops, you will be prepared to face future obstacles.
✔ Short-term therapy.
CBT is not a long-term commitment. It normally lasts a few weeks to several months, but seldom more than six months. However, the duration is determined by the issue's intricacy and severity.
✔ Problem-specific approach.
CBT focuses on individual concerns, whereas other therapies address general concepts such as self-discovery. Do you fear heights? Do you struggle with depression? CBT addresses specific issues and provides practical solutions to manage them.
During cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), you won’t just be lying on a couch talking about your past. Instead, you’ll actively work with your therapist to find solutions.
Here’s how a typical CBT process unfolds:
1️⃣ Setting therapy goals – You and your therapist will establish clear targets, such as reducing anxiety, improving stress management, or overcoming public speaking fears.
2️⃣ Identifying thought patterns – Together, you’ll recognize which thoughts and behaviors are holding you back. For instance, you may realize that before every stressful situation, you tell yourself "I can’t do this," which then influences how you act.
3️⃣ Challenging and reshaping negative thoughts – You’ll learn how to question harmful thoughts and replace them with more balanced perspectives. For example, instead of "I must be perfect," you might adopt "I just need to do my best."
4️⃣ Using practical techniques – CBT is not just about changing thoughts. It includes relaxation and coping strategies that help you manage anxiety during stressful moments.
5️⃣ Practicing real-life exercises – Your therapist will give you tasks to apply between sessions. If you fear public speaking, you might start by having small conversations, then speaking up in meetings, and eventually addressing a larger audience—but always at your own pace. No one will force you.
6️⃣ Achieving goals and wrapping up therapy – Once you’ve met your objectives, therapy concludes. CBT typically has a defined endpoint, but you’ll carry the skills you’ve gained into daily life.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is effective for a wide range of psychological challenges. Here are some of the issues it can address:
There is no need to seek for therapists in your region and wait months for an appointment. Cognitive-behavioral therapy is equally effective online. At Hedepy, you can select from a list of qualified therapists who specialize in CBT, and your first appointment could be scheduled in as little as a few days.
All you need for successful cognitive-behavioral therapy is a commitment and the proper therapist for you. We'd love to help you take the first step toward good transformation.