Do you fall on the pillow in the evening without energy and with the feeling that you still can’t keep up? Have you and your friends been trying to meet for dinner for a month? We all have difficult times sometimes, but don’t let yourself be overwhelmed by responsibilities and burnout. We will help you navigate the chaos and guide you through practical steps to organize your time and properly plan your day. So that you can breathe easy in the evening and take care of yourself.
If you are drowning in tasks, first you will need to untangle yourself from the whole situation – get an overview of everything that is happening, get it out of your head and solve the basic organization of time. You will see that you will feel a little relief right away. We’re going to do it in four steps.
Start with the work and study ones. Write down all the tasks that lie on your desk, all the projects that await you, and also regular activities. This could be writing monthly reports, regular meetings, etc. You need to get the best possible overview.
Do the same with personal tasks. Write down your current obligations, from making an appointment with the dentist to buying a present for an upcoming birthday. Everything you carry in your head. If you regularly have more demanding household tasks (like mowing the garden), put them on paper too.
You might be shocked by how many appear on the list. But don’t worry, we will reduce it gradually.
We often feel overwhelmed because we are not focusing on what is really important. When the deadline approaches, stress comes. That’s why we have to prioritize tasks. A great tool is the Eisenhower Principle. According to him, you divide tasks into four categories based on their importance and urgency.
Can’t decide what’s important? Try using the Pareto principle. According to him, 20% of the effort (in time management) brings us 80% of the benefit (income). Look for activities that have the biggest impact on your bottom line.
Then comes the time to get rid of unimportant tasks. Either by delegating them or simply not doing them. You really don’t have to do everything yourself. You can delegate the work to someone on the team, hire an outsider, or go to your supervisor with your to-do list and ask them to prioritize together.
Before you get out of the worst, how about inviting the lady for a proper cleaning or solving the arranged Sunday lunch by inviting the family to a restaurant? You will definitely come up with a lot of tasks that you don’t have to do yourself. It’s worth the peace of mind.
You know that feeling when you have a big task in front of you, but you keep putting it off because you don’t really know where to start?
That is why it is necessary to break down all large tasks (projects) into the smallest possible parts. Ones that only take a few minutes. For example, you can divide the preparation of the presentation into researching information, preparing the outline, creating slides, improving the design, etc. You don’t have to do everything at once. When you have the tasks divided, you can move them forward step by step, even if you only have fifteen minutes left for them.
You already know what awaits you. The next step is to plan the tasks correctly. Use a diary or one of the time management applications, it is not good to carry tasks in your head. You will be relieved.
Plan at least every week, maybe even a month. It doesn’t happen then that you promise something when you have a deadline for a monthly report, for example. Here we go:
Often we don’t even realize it, but during the day we run away to non-essential activities. For most of us, social media is a major time waster. But it can also be unnecessary meetings or any other form of procrastination. Try recording all your activities for a few days and see where you could “win” extra time. You will then have more free time in the evening and you can finally meet up with friends or finish reading the book that is lying on your desk.
We have a schedule, so now we’re going to look at specific time management methods to help stick to the schedule.
It may not seem like it now, but there is always a way out. But don’t be too hard on yourself. It takes time to get used to structured work and to train discipline. Start gradually and celebrate each progress.
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